So he arrives home and asks her, “How was your day?” She responds, “Good. How was your day?” If today’s progress equaled or exceeded what he wanted from these priorities, he answers, “Good.” Is it sinful to want career success, more money, to live in a nicer home, to drive a nice car, have a diversion you love, or to be able to take a nice vacation? No, of course not—at least not necessarily—and these are good things to have. I know that I want them! But they are “second things.” Unless a man is